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Marketing mistakes not only waste our financial resources, they take our focus away from the crucial details that need our time and attention if our businesses are going to thrive. These mistakes can be minimized with the right strategies and smart execution, paving the way to your success as a speaker or independent professional.
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Speaking on multiple topics—targeting a broad audience. Trying to be all things to all people will only render you a jack-of-all-trades, master-of-none. You will never be regarded as an expert or become “known” for anything. The most successful speakers (and professionals in general) target a specific group of people and commit to helping them solve a specific set of problems.
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Undervaluing or overvaluing your products, services or programs. Mark LeBlanc, author of the book Growing Your Business and founder of The Achiever’s Circle notes that, “People either charge too much too soon or too little too long.”
Spending time and money on marketing tools before establishing a business development strategy. I can’t count the number of times I’ve seen people throw money at “marketing solutions” in an effort to save their businesses, only to realize too late that slick brochures, a static website and company letterhead won’t grow their business. Successful speakers and professionals provide valuable services to people that need them. If you aren’t clear about what you offer—and to whom—and you haven’t discerned the best strategies for reaching those customers, your “marketing efforts” are wasting time and money.
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6. Create marketing plans that can be executed with as little “thinking” as possible. So often, the reason we aren’t executing our marketing plans is because … there is no plan! It requires so much emotional and mental energy to figure out “what to do next” for our marketing each day that we abandon our good intentions and focus on the tasks that we can check off our lists, thus sealing our own fate.
“A few weeks after we began working together, I noticed that Deb was struggling with the marketing. So I said to her: All you have to do is tell people what I do! With a stressed voice,air jordan, Deb replied, But I don’t know what to tell them you do! That was a defining moment in our business.
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If you will spend a couple hours at the beginning of the week or month (or even year!) to determine the frequency of your marketing initiatives and the individual steps for each active marketing strategy (ie. ensuring that you have the marketing copy, designed pieces, postage, etc on hand to execute the strategy), you will virtually guarantee your success.
If so,doudoune moncler pas cher, you’ve likely had to spend an extra ten or twenty hours (or more!) customizing your work for this client, and they likely haven’t paid you any more than the last customer who purchased your pre-packaged services for the same amount. Before you know it, you’re averaging $10 an hour for your time. How frustrating!
So what does the busy one-man-show super-businessperson do to avoid the busyness trap?
9. Create time-saving systems to make executing routine tasks a breeze. It can be very helpful to streamline your administrative tasks so that they are not interfering with the “big money” work of finding new clients and delivering your $100-or-more-per-hour work.
For many business owners, the busyness isn’t translating into depositing more checks, which is the point of all this busyness, right?
That’s why they process your marketing communications in their unconscious minds, eventually arriving at their decisions because of an emotional reason even though they may say they are deciding based on logic. They factor a lot about you into their final decision — how long they’ve heard of you, where your marketing appears, how it looks and feels to them, the quality of your offer,louboutin, your convenience or lack of it, what others have said about you, and most of all, how your offering can benefit them.
Once you’ve determined how you best serve the marketplace, develop your offerings so they can be delivered with what Mark LeBlanc calls “zero prep.” And if a client wants you to deviate from your process, make sure they are paying you very well to do so!
This step is not optional. I know,louboutin, I know … you’re busy! Welcome to the club. The question is … do you want to check things off your list, or cash checks? We serve our customers and ourselves best when we keep our priorities straight by creating the cash flow to hire and/or outsource to the team that will give our customers fabulous service and give us the time and quality of life we want. Remember,air jordan pas cher, there is nothing more important to the success of your business than putting effort toward finding new clients every single day.
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7. Be wary of customizing your work. Have you ever had a client request that you speak to their group, but instead of your normal presentation,louboutin pas cher, they want you to speak on a different subject? Or have you ever had someone want you to consult with them, but instead of your normal process, they want you to focus on some other areas they need help?
2. Leverage as much administrative work as possible. Most independent professionals need to value their time at at least $100 per hour. In so doing, you quickly realize how expensive it is for you to be doing $15-$35 per hour tasks! You truly are cutting into your bottom line when you hang on to those responsibilities … instead, fill your schedule up with $100 per hour work and pay someone else $15-$35 per hour to handle the details. Not enough $100-per-hour work to keep you busy? All the more reason why you should leverage-leverage-leverage so you can focus on finding new customers and collecting checks!
If you don’t feel that you can leverage these tasks out right away, at least compartmentalize them into the evenings or weekends and dedicate your best hours to finding or delivering $100-per-hour work.
Sound familiar? If articulating your value to the marketplace has you stuck,air jordan pas cher, you must make it a priority to get UNstuck as soon as possible. Connecting with prospects is the first step in finding customers. If you can’t manage this step, you’re dead. Figure out your value to your customers, and articulate it in one or two sentences. That’s all the time you have in a crowded marketplace to connect!
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Consistency builds awareness and trust with your prospects, two very important components of their buying process. You have the power to give them both—and you must if you want them to become a customer! Good marketing executed consistently works. When executed poorly, it’s a waste of time and money.
Although they state that they now want what you’re selling, and they do it in a very conscious manner, you can be sure they were guided by their unconscious minds. The consistent communicating of your benefits, your message and your name has penetrated their sacred unconscious mind. They’ve come to feel that they can trust you and so they decide to buy.
8. Before you start a new task, as yourself, “How will this help me grow my business?” This is a powerful question! By simply making a conscious effort to prioritize tasks that grow your business, you will naturally focus on the more valuable tasks and “procrastinate” the tasks that don’t support your bottom line.
(So, you do have one or two primary offerings that you are actively promoting in the marketplace, right? You aren’t confusing people by telling them you do 10 different things are you?)
4. Eliminate the mental blocks that keep you from getting out into the marketplace. Oftentimes, the reason we procrastinate our marketing efforts is because we aren’t confident in our ability to connect with and attract prospects.
5. Commit to consistency! Besides poor positioning (see # 3), poor execution is the number one killer of marketing success. Consider that it takes 5-7 touches within a reasonable period of time (two to three months) before your prospects compartmentalize you the top of their minds (this is referred to as the Marketing Rule of 7). From there, they’ll need to have a problem that your solution will solve before they will call upon you.
3. Spend time marketing your business every single day. Mark LeBlanc, author of Growing Your Business, recommends that every single day, you do three activities of high value (called “High Value Activities”) framed by time, quantity or money (ie. “Spend 30 minutes on a new article,” “Attend one networking event,” or “Send out 250 postcards to my list”),doudoune moncler pas cher, to grow your business. The purpose of these activities (which are generally aligned with your Marketing Gameplan) is to help you to find and convert more prospects.
Carl Potter, professional speaker and author of Who is Responsible for Safety?, recalls a time in his business when he struggled with this very thing. “Like most speakers, authors, trainers, facilitators, consultants (you get the drift), I worked hard to grow my business every year. In 2001, after eight years of persistent work, I asked my wife Deb to join the business with the idea that she would sell my services while working on her PhD.
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• Prepare the soil. Become the best friend your partner could wish for.
Here’s what I mean.
Whoever invented relationship-building must have modeled it after gardening – they work exactly the same way.
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As the grass began to grow, I knew it was time to connect with nature and get our garden ready for another productive year.
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Yahoo, it’s spring! It’s a great time to focus on the garden – and relationships. They are the same, aren’t they?
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I have a gardener’s hunch you are thinking about one particular relationship – a really important one for you.
Or I may say to myself, “I want this to be a healthy, productive garden and I am willing to put some focused effort into nurturing and caring for it. It will take effort and it may not always be fun, but the long-term result will be far better than I expected.”
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It was fun to work in the garden that sunny day. There was that distinctive rich, sweet smell. It was a very pleasurable experience to work the soil, plan where things would be, and to picture in my mind how it would look when we harvest and savour the veggies of our labour.
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• Nurture the seeds. Honestly and openly communicate about your shared vision for the future. Talk about the great experiences you are creating.
1. If what I DO gives me the relationship and results I want, I’m going to keep doing it – lots more of it.
Imagine this: One fine day you meet someone, and you really like him or her – a lot. You decide you would like to develop a relationship with this person. Your goal may be to develop a close friendship, or to connect in a way that will lead to a long-term relationship as life-partners. You have fantasies about a kind,louboutin, caring, loving,barbour sale, compassionate,michael kors outlet, fun, stimulating, respectful, and secure relationship. In your mind and heart, you can sense how it will look and feel to really “click” with this person.
I may choose to feel disappointed, frustrated,scarpe hogan, or angry. I may blame the weeds and the weather for spoiling my garden. I may criticize myself because I haven’t taken the time to pull the weeds. I may think, “It’s not my fault. I planted it so Carol should be weeding it.” Or a worse thought, “It’s easier to give up and cultivate the whole garden, weeds and all – it’s done for the year. It’s no use – I’m a terrible gardener.” Oh, poor me!
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You may choose to feel disappointed, frustrated, or angry. You may blame the other person, your work situation, or the government (why not, we blame them for everything else). You may berate yourself because you didn’t handle the situations effectively. You may think, “It’s not my fault. He/she should be taking some responsibility too,” or even worse, “It’s probably easier to give up and leave the scene – this relationship is done. It’s no use – I’m a terrible person.”
Wherever you are in that relationship, seedling stage, growth, or maturity, my challenge for you, should you choose to accept it, is to apply the natural laws of gardening to your relationship. Let these laws guide you. They work!
So, my question for you is this: What is the condition of your relationship garden?
• Plan your garden. Envision a fantastic relationship 20, 30, or 80 years into the future. See it, hear it, feel it, taste it, and smell it – use all of your senses and emotions.
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